Showing posts with label Etiquette. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Etiquette. Show all posts

1.22.2013

Boating Stigmas

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After two sailboats and two distinctly different cruises through the Eastern & Western Caribbean we purchased a power boat. (Begin SCOFF) Felicity, a 1968 50' Hatteras was (in our minds) the end-all-be all. The. Perfect. Boat. (for us) Honestly,we were a little anxious to reveal this monstrous boat that lacked a mast, sail and a deep draft. Why? Well because for centuries sailors and power boaters have not seen eye to eye. It seems your either one or the other NOT BOTH! You  can't straddle the proverbial line between laid back sailor and stuffy, wake throwing power boater! Yet, here we are. Decidedly in love with both types of boats and the lifestyles that accompany them. We are able to talk from both sides of the coin thanks to experience and quite frankly, we may "someday" become sailboat owners' again.

So what's it like to be a rag-bagger and a stink-potter? A blow-boater and a WAFI (wind assisted F****** idiot)? Well, really it feels no different. I don't mind being both. But I do mind the fact that while we haven't changed peoples' reaction to us sure have. I've met losers and real winners from both camps. It doesn't matter the type of boat, AT ALL!

I don't like the stigmas. To each his own. Yet, from the fly-bridge I sure do see things differently. I see that regardless of the boat we surround ourselves with we are one and your actions speak louder than words. That being said I have advice for both sides,

Please wave "Hello!" to all vessels that pass.
Please know & follow the "rules of the road!"
Please use your VHF, communicate with traffic.
Please use common sense and compassion.
Please practice patience, for your own good and the good of others.
Please be aware of your wake and know that you ARE responsible for any damage left by that wake.
Please be aware of your vessel at all times and keep annoying sounds to a minimum (halyards, noisy generators).

I merely write this post to remind us all that when stripped of our sails and engines we are all just brothers and sisters with a passion for adventure on the water!

8.06.2012

Raft Up: Clothes & Laundry


Okay this is cool because I get to talk from all sides of the coin. I have lived on land, sailboat and powerboat. I have lived aboard while maintaining a job and cruised with no place of employment to report. All these require totally different types of clothing/laundry maintenance.

Land = endless opportunity for shopping, cleaning and storing clothing. End of story.

Sailboat while working = interesting choices of attire include wrinkle free, lose clothing that can dry easily after a thorough soaking due to wet dinghy ride into shore. Laundry includes a weekly trip to the nearest laundry facility be it marina or public facility. Other days you just do small loads of laundry every other day or as needed like this.

Sailboat while cruising =  generally speaking we were in our swimsuits until we had to throw on clothes which were typically dresses or shirts and shorts. Again, in foreign ports we keep our attire in mind; if it's a beach town one can get away with a flimsy dress or a ratty shirt. It's very important to have a nice outfit to wear to meet the Customs & Immigration officials.

Powerboat = almost anything goes with the amount of space we now have in comparison to our first two sailboats. Laundry can be done on board with our washer/dryer combo making us completely self-sufficient. OR if we so choose we can use a marina/public facility.

CLOTHING
Impractical items? There ARE NO impractical items. I do not have a particular brand or anything. I buy most of our clothes second hand because I’d rather support local businesses and it is budget friendly. I have 3 persons to clothe onboardand we have differe nt needs. An ever-growing child needs newer items more often. The Captain needs more shirts and shorts to blow out as he constantly works on diesel engines and is usually pouring sweat. I can be seen wearing one of two types of outfits, yoga/athletic gear or super cute(if I may say so myself) bohemian fashions. If you like it and you will wear it; it’s practical.
When I shop for clothing I always look for something light and cool, something that will not wrinkle or can be unwrinkled easily, laundered either by hand or in a machine with everything else. I stay away from embellishments, metal decoration and fringe, material like silk, chiffon and velcro. Light colors to keep the sun from beating down on you, but not too much actually stays white on a boat for long.


I have broken our closets down into pieces for you.

Shoes - Originally I got rid of all my shoes (heels) and I missed them once! The occasion was a New Year’s Eve cocktail party onboard a new friend’s massive sailboat. As soon as we got onboard we all kicked off our shoes anyway so my desire for pumps was short lived. In the past seven years since I began cruising I have almost never worn anything other than flops and I love it that way. Come to think of it, in Guatemala I never even wore shoes; to the market, to the bank, to the bar. No one wore shoes and it was accepted. It became difficult to remember to wear shoes when we arrived back to the States. My inventory of shoes onboard consist of a pair of deck shoes, sneakers for jogging,  flops (at least two pairs), a singular, cherished pair of Tommy Hilfiger Hemp Mary-Jane wedges (rarely worn but handy for those rare occasions that require dressing up), a pair of black Mary-Jane style Crocs and a pair of ballet flats. For the rest of my life I will never wear a pair of heels, and this is coming from a former career girl who used to rock the hottest heels.

Swimsuits – Swimsuits are the one thing we seem to go through the most of. You can never have too many and caring for them is key. The sun and sea are strong fighters against spandex, rayon and other unnatural materials. When I shop I stay away from embellishments, metallic details and fringe. You will get pulls from the non-skid decks on your bum creating a funny, fuzzy bottom.  

Shirts/Shorts – Lose fitting, quick drying and modesty are key. While I enjoy wearing my bootie shorts onboard they don’t pass for acceptable on the shores of foreign countries. Skirts of all lengths are good. Shirts for The Captain are mostly lightweight tees that quickly turn into rags and a few button ups for those special occasions. You might go to church services, you might get invited to the home of some locals, you might meet some pretty important people so be prepared for those special occasions.

Foul Weather Gear – Don’t skimp on these, buy the expensive pair, the store brand are cheaper for a reason. You will spend very little time in these but at the moment when you have to wear them they pay for themselves immediately. My foulies are like an escape from the terrible conditions, I immediately feel safer and calmer in them. Finding children’s foulies can be difficult and expect to pay top dollar. Try swapping with other cruising families.

 

5.29.2012

Cruisers Laundry Etiquette 101


Laundry has always been one of the necessary evils of cruising. I don't know about you but I have found that the best way to do laundry is to go to the laundry room on a Thursday night with an *alcoholic beverage* of choice; load the machine and plop down with a good gossip mag! But, as we all know sometime life gets in the way and it just doesn't happen like that. WARNING: This may not be pretty and I may make some  people mad but, "Hey, the truth hurts sometimes." Also, while we should all really know this already; we could all use a kind reminder. I have come to the conclusion that there are two kinds of people in the laundry room. Inconsiderate *or* Considerate. Here is a list of things that will help keep you in the good graces of the laundering Gods (and your neighbors)


1. Handling Other People's Stuff - While I am one who will absolutely NOT touch other people's laundry there comes a time when you need the machine that someone has long forgotten about and you just have to move it. If you have waited a reasonable amount of time, at least 10 or more (use your own parameters) minutes since the machine stopped, it's time to decide your plan of action. When removing people's laundry remember this - SH*T happens and sometimes people get hung up, the timer doesn't go off, kids get sick, whatever the reason people do not intentionally leave their laundry to piss you off, so be courteous. Put the laundry in a basket if it's dry or the dryer if it is wet. But DO NOT start the dryer. You are not doing them any favors as some people like to line dry. If you are there when the person arrives be nice, smile, introduce yourself and mention that you are sorry you touched their stuff and you hope they don't mind but you needed the next machine. Generally speaking, that person (if it is you, listen up!) will be thankful and remorseful. The most important thing to remember here is to "treat others as you would like to be treated!" 
2. Don't Be That Guy! - Okay so as you read above, no one wants to touch your stuff, so please be timely about your laundering. Set a timer, bring a book, join the club, we have other things to do too! If you don't want people touching your skivvies then get your butt back to the laundry room on time, or don't even leave. Focus solely on the task at hand and GET 'er DONE! 
3. Clean the Lint Trap - Nothing worse than checking the lint trap and finding animal hair, pieces of crumpled up paper and who knows what in the screen. The unwritten rule is clean it immediately after you remove your dry clothing. While I don't mind finding $money$ in the machine I do mind that fact that I have to touch (eww) whatever it is that you wanted to wash OUT of your stuff. Thanks, but no thanks.
4. NO SMOKING. Seriously, I was in shock when I saw people crowded around the door of the washroom puffing away on those things! While I'm trying to make things smell clean they are right at the doorway stinking it up again. Geesh! Besides, my health I am interested in keeping my clean laundry smelling like the Tide I walked in here with, thanks.
5. Be Organized -Nothing worse than waiting for a machine with a person standing in front of it sorting the whites from the colors. Get your laundry in order. Get your quarters or tokens in advance. Have all the supplies you need before you occupy the machine. You may have walked into an empty room but don't take that as your que to spread out and call it home.
 6Remember You Are a Guest - This is not your washing machine. This is not your boat or your house and you will have to "share" this space. Be kind, be courteous and be clean. Thankfully, this space was here so you could go have clean clothes. Treat this space as you would better than your own. Wipe down any spills immediately, put garbage in proper location and remember to check and re-check that you have all of your materials and clothing before you leave.
Laundry can be a very touchy subject and hopefully, I haven't offended anyone but this does need to be said. I am no angel I have been "that guy" - believe me. That being said, I totally had a good reason for showing up late and thankfully the person who waited patiently for me to return to my work was super nice. Hence, my affinity for treating people the way you wish to be treated. In any case, I think you will find that you'll have a great laundry experience if you remember this advice. Happy Washing!!!

Wishing you your own felicity.